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- She probably weighed not more than 110 pounds.
She was about 4'11" tall.
And her hair hung well below her waist.
She had deep-set eyes and a fierce look,
as if she were looking right through you.
- What was your relationship with her like, Mom?
- She delivered me.
She used to tell me how I startled her and my dad
a few minutes after I was born by opening my eyes
and turning my head to look around the room.
And she said, "Gaw, look at that!"
My grandmother loved to talk,
and most of her stories were bad.
[Laughs]
But Granny's stories were real-life stories--
she didn't know anything about Hansel and Gretel.
Here is this woman, a former slave,
walking around delivering babies and helping people.
You have to understand that back when Granny started,
there were no hospitals for Black people to go to,
and poor people had no money
to pay for professional medical care.
So if you had a disease
that could not be treated by a midwife, you died at home.
Houses could be several miles apart,
and bears commonly roved the neighborhoods.
But she walked.
If somebody needed help, Granny was going.
Black and whites alike, it made no difference to her.
She was fearless.
You know, she never boasted about what she did,
but she probably caught
several hundred babies,
if not more.
- How old was Granny Hayden when she stopped her practice?
- She was about 90 years old.
She was a very strong little woman.
You know, when people think about slavery,
they think about hundreds of years ago,
not about somebody who died in 1956!
She was a pillar, not only in our family,
but in our community.
And I assumed she would always be there.
Like when you're a child,
you assume everything's going to be there.
But I am very proud to have descended
from someone like my grandmother.
Very, very proud.
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