- Narrator: How can you say no to your kids while you're shopping without all the arguments?

(register beeping)

- Oh. No, we are not spending money on candy! 
- But Caroline-- 
- I'm not talking about Caroline. You took the candy bar. 
- Just let him have it! Let him have it this time. 
(register beeping)
 
- Look at that. How could it be so much? And where did that come from? 
- Narrator: So what's the answer? How can you get a handle on shopping, without so much drama and stress?

Kids want lots of things, some that require new spending, but many that don't.

- Matthew, did you brush your teeth yet? 
- No. 
- You know what I said. No games until you brush. 
- Okay. 
- Narrator: For kids, learning to wait is a habit that puts all their wants into proper perspective, whether it's doing homework before going out to play, helping with the dishes before watching TV, or waiting before you buy something for them. And for parents it's helpful to make a shopping list before you leave for the store. And then stick to it. A list helps you stay on track, and also helps you control your kid's sudden impulses. 
- We're low on milk and fruit. 
- Okay. 
- Caroline, what are you doing with the phone? 
- I'm just calling Michelle. 
- That can wait till we get back. Come on, Matthew, let's go. Ready?

- Can we get some ice cream? 
- Not today, Caroline, ice cream's not on the list.

- Maybe we can get it next time. 
- Narrator: Having a well thought out list can help both kids and parents budget effectively, and avoid those impulses to spend money carelessly.